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Economy hurting Foster Children March 20, 2009

Filed under: Uncategorized — margaretiuculano @ 12:03 pm

Economy Causes More Children To Need Foster Care

POSTED: 5:27 pm EDT March 19, 2009
UPDATED: 5:46 pm EDT March 19, 2009

In what may be a heartbreaking sign of the economic recession, more children are turning up in the foster care system and fewer families are willing to take them in. 

Lighthouse Youth Services said it has seen an increase in the number of children who need foster homes. The group blames the economy. 

“Maybe they can’t pay their Duke Energy bill. Maybe they don’t have food to feed everybody in their household, so it results in some issues that cause children to get in the system,” said Lighthouse’s Bonita Campbell. 

According to Brian Gregg of Hamilton County Job and Family Services, there are 850 kids in the system right now who need a foster home and only 230 homes available. 

“We are seeing foster parents come to us and say I can’t be a foster parent anymore because I can’t afford it,” said Gregg. 

Despite a marketing effort to recruit new foster families, Lighthouse said those families are harder and harder to come by. 

“In the last three months, we have not had any foster parents or any families come forward that they’re interested in becoming foster parents,” said Jamie Clarke.

 

ACLU says suit on 2008’s Act 1 March 4, 2009

Filed under: Uncategorized — margaretiuculano @ 1:12 pm

Now here is an ever ending battle in foster care and adoptions.  Do we want our troubled kids who have been removed from their homes put into foster care with parents who are gay?  What are your thoughts?

BY JOHN LYNCH

Posted on Tuesday, March 3, 2009

A lawsuit challenging a voterapproved law restricting adoptions and foster care should be allowed to proceed because, among other things, Arkansas’ Initiated Act 1 of 2008 violates the rights of parents to manage the care of their own children, the American Civil Liberties Union claims in its latest court filing.

The law, which bans unmarried cohabiting couples from fostering or adopting children, also harms the state’s “neediest” children by denying them access to loving and qualified parents and guardians, the group claims in its 55-page response to a motion from the state to dismiss the lawsuit. The ACLU, representing 24 adults and children, is challenging the constitutionality of the law in Pulaski County Circuit Court.

“By categorically depriving gay couples and unmarried heterosexual couples of the opportunity to show that they are fit adoptive or foster parents, Act 1 unconstitutionally threatens and violates constitutional rights such as: the right of families to live together; the right of children to be free from stateimposed harm; and the right of parents to have the state respect their judgment as to who would be the best adoptive parents for their children in the event of their death or incapacity,” the pleading states. “The disparate treatment of gay and unmarried couples required by Act 1 impermissibly interferes with such fundamental constitutional rights and violates the guarantee of equal protection under the law.”

Pulaski County Circuit Judge Chris Piazza will consider dis- missing the lawsuit at a March 17 hearing. On Friday, the judge is scheduled to decide on whether the Family Council Action Committee and its president, Jerry Cox, Act 1’s most vocal supporters, can come to the defense of the law in court. Currently, the Arkansas Attorney General’s Office in defending Act 1, which took affect on Jan. 1 with 57 percent of voters approving the measure in November.

In the filing, the ACLU also claims state attorneys are distorting its stand against the law, arguing the state is using “phantom assertions” that plaintiffs are trying to establish a right by children to be adopted or fostered.

The actual argument, according to the filing, is that Act 1 violates the rights of children in state custody by putting them at risk of harm by arbitrarily denying them “fit and appropriate” adoptive and foster parents.

“Plaintiffs have alleged and will present proof at trial that Act 1 harms children in state care by denying some of them the home that is most appropriate for their needs and by limiting the opportunities for all of these children to have any foster or adoptive parent at all, condemning more of them to growing up without ever becoming part of a family,” the filing states. “Plaintiffs further have alleged, and the evidence will show, that preexisting Arkansas policy already protects the best interests of children – which defendants must deem paramount – by screening all prospective adoptive and foster parents to determine their suitability to care for a child. Thus, Act 1’s only accomplishment is to deprive children of placement with adults who would be deemed suitable and appropriate adoptive or foster parents.”

The state has repeatedly found that single people can be good parents, the ACLU pleading states, pointing to rulings from Pulaski County Circuit Court and the Arkansas Supreme Court affirming homosexuals should be allowed to adopt. In those cases, judges received testimony from child-care experts who say there’s no harm in allowing children to be raised by homosexual parents.

A month before voters approved Act 1 last year, the ACLU filing notes, the state Department of Human Services dropped its own policy preventing single people from adopting after a hearing where child-care experts opposed the policy.

Parents should have the right to have a say how their children are raised, the ACLU argues, but Act 1 can prevent their wishes from being heard, let alone considered.

“The parent-plaintiffs recognize that they do not have the absolute right to dictate the adoptive placement of their children through their testamentary wishes,” the filing states. “But they do have a protected right to provide a recommendation that will be given weight by the state in considering the best interests of their children. Accordingly, what parent-plaintiffs object to is the fact that Act 1 will require defendants to automatically reject their judgment, as fit parents, as to who would be the best adoptive placement for their children if tragedy were to strike.”

Court filings show that five of the plaintiffs have left the case. Wendy Wilson and Matthew Dylan Foster, with their three daughters, have withdrawn with no reason stated. The ACLU identified them in court papers as a Russellville couple engaged to be married, with daughters ages 5 and younger. If something happens to the couple, they want Wilson’s homosexual mother and her partner to adopt the girls, but Act 1 would prevent the adoption.

 

Monthly Payments for Foster Care Parents March 1, 2009

Filed under: Uncategorized — margaretiuculano @ 10:22 pm

My question today is on money paid to Foster Parents each month for the children they take in.  Each state requires that the monthly stip-end received by Foster Parents must be used to pay for the foster child only.  How many times has your local DCF office come to verify how that money is being spent each month? 

I think it is a wonderful thing for families to take in children who so desperately need stability and people willing to care about what happens to them.  These would be people who foster for the right reasons and whose hearts are in the right place and I would bet these parents give so much that their monthly stipends would not be sufficient.

But – and you know I have one — I see so many foster parents who are not financially able to take care of themselves and how they pass through the system to take in foster children – now that always amazes me.  I would like to review their expenditures for the children they take in.  Have these children even received a new pair of shoes?  I grow so tired of everyone stating people don’t foster for the money but I believe the statistics would startle most!  How is it these children leave with a only a garbage bag in most cases with very few belongings?  Why do we not ask this question when we see children with so little?

This blog was written to create questions and thought – we need QUALITY foster parents!  I am sure if we all reached out we could find more of these champions who realize that the difference they make in the life of a child if even only one child could help change our world for the better.  These children are our future leaders, our children and grand children will be living in the world with so many foster children from our era – We need to help these children realize their god given talents and succeed as adults.

Maybe you can become a Champion or help to find one?